Expect everything to be easy.
It’s easy to think that people who succeed and do things easily are lucky. But the truth is, they’re just willing to work hard and face challenges head on. They don’t let their fear of failure keep them from trying new things or learning from their mistakes. They try again and again until they get it right!
When you see someone who’s lucky at something, don’t ask yourself how that person got so lucky—ask yourself why you aren’t as willing to work hard as this person is. Are you afraid of failing? Is there something about your current situation that makes it difficult for you to succeed? Or do you just not feel motivated by what’s currently in front of you? For example: if I told myself that writing was no fun for me because I wasn’t naturally good at it (like some people seem), then I would never write anything! That would be giving up before even giving myself a chance at success.
Are obsessed with the idea of being unlucky.
It’s a waste of time to think about the idea of being unlucky. You are not your thoughts, so you don’t have to define yourself based on them. Instead, look at your actions and how they affect your life. If you do good things for others and for yourself, then you will attract more good things into your life!
The next time someone asks how luck is treating you, ask them what they mean by that question instead of getting stuck on whether or not their definition of happy matches yours.
Don’t learn from their mistakes.
Lucky people don’t make the same mistakes over and over. They learn from their mistakes and they change their behavior in order to avoid making them again.
Unlucky people have a tendency to repeat the same mistakes, regardless of how many times they’ve been burned in the past. If you’ve already made some bad decisions, but still insist on going ahead with similar actions again, then that’s a sign that you’re not paying attention to what’s happening around you
Dwell on things they can’t control.
The second thing unlucky people do is dwell on things they can’t control.
It’s easy to get stuck in the what-ifs and the past, but lucky people focus on the present. They concentrate on the things that are within their reach: what they can control. They don’t get caught up in other people’s opinions or worry about how others see them—they keep it real by being honest with themselves and asking for help when needed.
Don’t say thank you enough.
Very few people are lucky enough to have everything they could ever want. The rest of us have good days, bad days and some in-between ones that fall somewhere in between. However, there are a few things all unlucky people have in common:
- They don’t say thank you enough
- They think they deserve everything they get
- They aren’t grateful for the small things such as someone holding the door open for them or giving them directions when lost (we all know this happens!)
Why do these habits matter? They make you an unappreciative person who isn’t easy to be around! So, if you’re looking for ways to give yourself a break from being so ungrateful, take note from this list of 21 Things Only Lucky People Do and try some new habits out today!
Don’t celebrate the small wins/positive moments in their day-to-day life.
Lucky people don’t just “get lucky.” They work hard, and they’re prepared for the good things that come to them.
It’s easy to get stuck in a rut, especially if you’re unlucky by nature. You may not feel like celebrating every moment, especially if your life hasn’t been all sunshine and roses. But trust us: celebrating even the small wins is important for your mental health! Celebrating positive moments can be as simple as getting a seat on the train or finishing a chapter of your favourite book—but it’s also important to give yourself something special occasionally, too. Treat yourself to what makes you happy (your favourite coffee? A piece of cake?), or do something nice for someone else that doesn’t involve money—like giving them flowers or buying them lunch at work
Don’t have a self-care routine.
One of the most important things you can do for your mental health is to have a self-care routine. A self-care routine is a series of activities that you do every day (or at least several times per week) that aim to improve your mood and overall well-being. It’s not just about taking time out for yourself; it’s also about making sure that you look after yourself on an ongoing basis, so that when life gets tough, you know how best to handle stress in an effective way.
A good self-care routine can take many forms—it could be as simple as having a bath each evening, or as involved as going through an entire meditation program from start to finish every morning. The key thing is that it works for YOU! If something makes sense on paper but doesn’t feel right within yourself then don’t do it! Find what works for YOU because this will have far greater impact than anything else out there (as long as its healthy).
Constantly compare themselves to others.
One of the easiest ways to feel unlucky is to compare yourself with others. It’s easy to do this because we’re surrounded by people who seem more successful, attractive and happy than we are. It’s also tempting because it feels like a safer way of making yourself feel better about your own life: if everyone else is unhappy then it must mean that I’m doing alright?
However, comparing yourself with other people is completely useless and will only make you unhappy. Instead of constantly focusing on how you measure up against every passerby, focus on what makes YOU unique. If there’s one thing that all lucky people have in common it is their ability not to focus on others but instead on themselves (and their goals).
Are afraid of trying new things or taking risks.
You can’t grow if you don’t take risks. Taking risks and trying new things is an important part of life, and one that lucky people do well.
Taking a risk isn’t always easy, especially when it comes to something that might fail or be criticized by other people. Some unlucky people are afraid of failure and criticism so they never try anything new or different. It’s not always easy to get over those fears, but here are some tips:
- If you’re worried about failing, remember that everyone fails sometimes! Everyone is human and makes mistakes—it’s part of being human!
- If someone criticizes your project or idea, remember that their opinion isn’t necessarily correct just because they said it first (or loudest). If someone else has a different perspective than yours on something then listen carefully to what they have to say before making up your mind about it!
Blame other people for the things that happen in their lives.
Unlucky people tend to blame other people for the things that happen in their lives. They are never satisfied with what they have, always looking for the next best thing.
They can’t take responsibility for their own actions, and instead of asking themselves how they might be able to do things differently, they look outwardly at others as the cause of their problems.
Don’t smile much if at all.
Smiling is an incredible habit to have. Smiling can make you feel happier, it can boost your mood, and it can even make you look more attractive. It’s a simple action that costs nothing and yet has so many benefits. Smiling also makes those around you feel good as well, which is why a lot of people do it regularly. However, there are some unlucky people who don’t smile much at all because they believe smiling is only for lucky people or that they shouldn’t smile because they don’t deserve happiness (or something like that). While this might be true in the short term—i.e., smiling won’t make your life better overnight—it’s still worth working on improving your attitude because there are plenty of ways to do so without putting yourself down!
What might seem like luck is actually something unrelated, but many people don’t understand that
The law of attraction is a theory that people attract into their lives what they think about most. In other words, we create our own luck through our thoughts and actions.
The law of attraction states that we create our reality by attracting experiences to us via our thoughts and feelings. A common example used to illustrate this concept is that when you think about winning the lottery, you’re more likely to purchase tickets for it because you have an increased chance of winning if more people are playing the game (the more people who buy tickets, the larger the jackpot). This is true even though there may be thousands of other factors which could influence your chances of winning—like whether or not you actually play each week! The point is: if having lots of money were all it took for success in life then everyone would be rich!